These rules are part of the Terms of Service. They exist so that saying yes to an introduction never requires courage.
The rules
Be yourself. Your name, your age, your photos, your life. Impersonation, stolen photos, and AI-generated portraits presented as you are removals, first offense.
Be an adult. The service is 18 and over, no exceptions. Suspected underage use is investigated immediately.
Be single. This is a service for people genuinely available for a relationship.
No harassment. When someone says no, that is the end. Repeated contact, pressure, insults, and unwanted sexual content are harassment.
No coercion or threats. Including threats to share private information or images. Blackmail is a removal and, where the law provides, a police matter.
No hate. Attacks on caste, religion, community, skin tone, gender, sexuality, or disability have no place here.
No fraud. Asking members for money, investments, or financial details is a removal, first offense.
No doxxing. Sharing another member's contact details, workplace, or address without their consent.
No deepfakes. Synthetic media of yourself presented as real, or of anyone else at all.
What happens when a rule is broken
Severity
Examples
Typical outcome
Minor, first time
Rudeness, oversharing, pushiness
A warning that names the rule
Serious or repeated
Harassment after a no, dishonest profile details
Pause while we investigate, then warning or removal
Immediate removal; referral to authorities where the law provides
False reports
Reports made to punish someone rather than protect someone are themselves a rule violation. A wave of coordinated reports against one member flags the reports, not the member.
Ban evasion and appeals
Returning after a removal with new contact details is not allowed; we keep the minimum hashed identifiers needed to enforce that, as described in the Privacy Policy. Every removal can be appealed once, by email to team@pyaarmilan.com within 14 days; a person who was not part of the original decision reviews it and replies in writing.