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The agreement

Honest terms,
up front.

One tap, then we ask about you. We collect nothing personal before it.

What this is, and what happens next

Who this is for: South Asian singles 18 and older in the United States. Outside the US, leave your email at /not-in-us.

Founding class: membership is free. We are not taking payment and we do not collect payment details. If that ever changes we will tell you 30 days ahead and never charge without your confirmation.

What happens next: a person on our team reads your application. Before we introduce you to anyone we confirm your phone and email. We do not run identity or background checks. More in the Safety Center and the Privacy Policy.

By continuing you confirm you are 18 or older, agree to the Terms and Privacy Policy, and are fine with us using the religion and community details you share to make your introductions.

About you

Let's start
with you.

The factual part. About thirty seconds.

What you are here for

Now the part
that matters.

Mostly taps, and one box to type in. It is the one we actually match on.

What are you here for?
What is broken about dating apps for you?

Tap everything that is true. Most people tap more than one.

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Why we ask: it helps our team confirm you are who you say you are. Shown to a match only if you reply CHANGE INSTAGRAM after a mutual yes.

Both optional. Neither affects your application.

Verification

Prove it's
really you.

A code to your phone and one to your email. This is most of what keeps fakes out.

Locked out? Email team@pyaarmilan.com and a person will help you finish.

Your background

Where you
come from.

Community, faith, and how you were raised. Every question here has a "prefer not to say".

Why we ask: shared cultural context is the main reason people come to us. Write "Prefer not to say" if you'd rather not.

Why we ask: many members match within their faith. Your choice either way.

Why we ask: practice-level mismatches are the most common dealbreaker we see.

Life details

A bit about
your life.

Education, work, and the practicals.

Why we ask: we only pair people whose intent lines up.

Why we ask: same reason. Timelines that clash waste everyone's heart.

You are applying for the founding class. Membership is free: we are not taking payment and we do not collect payment details. If we ever introduce a paid plan we will tell you 30 days ahead and never charge you without your confirmation. More on membership.

In your own words

This is the
important part.

Take your time here. These answers are what makes a real match possible.

Please do not include family members' names, employers, addresses, immigration or health details, or anything about other people.

Photos

A face to
your story.

Add 1 or 2 photos. Reviewed by a person on our team, never public.

Photos are stored privately and reviewed by our team. If you leave before submitting, uploads are deleted within 24 hours. Remove a photo any time with the x. Today's introductions carry first name, age, and community; if the format ever includes photos, we will tell you first.
JPEG, PNG, HEIC, or WebP. Up to 8 MB each.

What a match sees before you both say yes:

What is released only after a mutual yes: your first name and phone number. You will see the exact fields again in the YES prompt, with a reminder before release and a WITHDRAW option. The introduction format expands only with notice.

You are in review.

A person on our team reads every application. We will text you when the founding class closes, to finish your application. Membership is free for the founding class.